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Tuesday, 1 June 2010

What is love?

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done

many speculations on the phenomenon of love.

But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings,

sculptor and literature.

Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love,

just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience

has also done to it.


Psychology portrays love as a cognitive

phenomenon with a social cause.

It is said to have three components in the book of

psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion.

Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high

form of tolerance.

And this view has been accepted and advocated

by both philosophers and scholars.

Love also includes compatibility.

But it is more of journey to the unknown

when the concept of compatibility comes into picture.

Maybe the person whom we see in front of us,

may be least compatible than the person

who is miles away.

We might talk to each other and portray

that we love each other,

but practically we do not end up into any relationship.


Also in compatibility, the key is to think about

the long term successful relationship,

not a short journey.

We need to understand each other and must always

remember that no body is perfect.


Be together, share your joy and sorrow,

understand each other, provide space to each other,

but always be there for each others need.

And surely love will blossom to strengthen your

relationship

with your matter of affection.



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